Yet you can see the cheater or former cheater is still a good parent as an example.
Glad to hear you have security in place.
Life comes creeping in after the honeymoon and reminds you about the bills, and the obligations you still have.
Acting like cheaters are prizes makes affairs partner think they've won a prize! It hurts but I understand.
Can you imagine your wayward spouse taking cocaine and heroin in one night? You will Forgive over and over.
We can all see in hindsight things that were maybe behavior flags that we missed.